Barbara Holstein
Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein , originator of THE ENCHANTED SELF®, a method of bringing delight and meaning into everyday living, invites you to view her new line of ENCHANTED WOMAN products, e-books, and free gifts at http://www.enchantedself.com. www.enchantedself.com
Articles by this Author
The Wise Older Woman
- By Barbara Holstein
- Published 07/17/2007
- Advice
- Unrated
Recently, I attended a beautiful wedding. A young Jewish couple came together in joy and the room was filled with happiness. Outside of the banquet room I noticed a group of older women sitting near the door collecting charity. They all looked very pure and plain at the same time, young seniors and older seniors, nothing fancy about them. Their hips were full.
Life Writing, One Facet of Living an Enchanted Life
- By Barbara Holstein
- Published 07/17/2007
- Advice
- Unrated
I started life writing in the fifth grade. My mother bought me my own Girl Shout diary! Are you wondering what a Girl Shout diary is? It was a Girl Scout diary kept by me. I had a minor learning disability, undiagnosed in those days, resulting in funny spellings. Undaunted, I wrote to Dear Diary, sharing the best of I Love Lucy, visits with grandparents, and weekly meeting with the Girl Scouts.
The Communal Sharing of Enchantment
- By Barbara Holstein
- Published 07/17/2007
- Advice
- Unrated
Mentoring and learning from each other is much more that taking a course or explicitly giving someone advice or help. Almost every moment of every day when we are with people has the potential for becoming a mentoring or a learning situation. We talk, gesture, and involve ourselves in many ways with many people. The exchange can be uplifting, informative, reassuring, kind or it can be depressing, depleting, annoying, bothersome and more! I'm sure you can think of both some good and some bad times with other people!
I teach that experiencing The Enchanted Self is unique to each person.
I teach that experiencing The Enchanted Self is unique to each person.
Practical Steps to Enchantment: Improving Your Self Esteem
- By Barbara Holstein
- Published 07/17/2007
- Advice
- Unrated
Often in our society, we are bombarded with the lives of celebrities. We can end up feeling that if we are not part of the rich and famous, our lives are insignificant. Our society also sends a message of competition and achievement. We watch sports, we always hear about profit and the bottom line being the dollar, we see large companies competing and constantly buying each other out.
Life, The Greatest Ride of All
- By Barbara Holstein
- Published 07/23/2007
- Advice
- Unrated
Life is the greatest roller coaster ride we will ever take. The ups and downs, the unexpected changes, the twists and turns, are all a part of living. The roller coaster ride of life can be miserable and uncomfortable or exciting and rewarding. Our states of mind and body are key factors in how we handle these changes. The problems of life do not go away magically.



