One common suggestion that is recommended for improving social skills is to practice. Practice meeting other people, going to social events, joining clubs, taking classes or practice being with different people in various situations.

But practice what?

Practice being in a crowded room and standing by yourself in the corner?

Practice feeling awkward?

Practice being nervous around others?

Practice walking up to a group of people with absolutely no idea of what to say?

If that's what I had to "practice" every time I went out, I doubt I'd be going anywhere anytime soon.

There are many people who want better relationships, more friends, and meaningful interactions with others. Often, they recognize that part of their problem is that their own communication and social skills aren't very good.

It's true that if you lack various social skills then you're most likely part of your problem. But let's look at this deficit from a different perspective: is it really all your fault?

Does everyone around you have stellar social skills?

Nope.