Of course we all have questions from time to time that we need to find answers to. The need to be in the "know" keeps many people jumping from one fad to the next. We are so eager to find out information that we spend countless hours and money searching every possible facet of what ever it is that we are interested in.

The process of our minds in wanting to know leads to many taking large leaps in faith to substantiate what they believe to be true.

Yes you read that right. New Year's resolutions are for losers!

I am sure by now many people are asking each other what their resolutions are for next year. What a joke. Resolutions are made only because of peer pressure. Wanting to be thought of as one of the gang, we all have fallen for this in the past. Well today I am suggesting to you that you give up the act of setting New Year's resolutions.

In 1982 I won a boxing championship and received a championship trophy for it. Now many of us have trophies we won as kids that we may have or may not have any longer. I was excited when I found this trophy because of the effort that went into winning it. It reminds me daily of the daily training and commitment it took to accomplish my goal.

So what is your trophy? What is it that you are striving to get.

That is the question isn't it. For some people these mysterious forces keep interjecting in their lives that they are forced to ask "Why me?" Somehow the thought is that whatever has happened to them is not happening to other people that they are the only ones who ever experience hardship of any kind. They fail to realize that we all are faced with many "why me" moments constantly throughout all of our lives.